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Sunday, September 03, 2006

And the country went mad.

Nine years ago last week the country changed. I was on holiday at the time. I awoke turned on the radio to get radio 4. Now this was surprising since I was tuned to Radio 5! It quickly became apparent that a member of the Royal Family had died, and of course the natural assumption was that it was the Queen Mother, but it soon dawned that Diana Princess of Wales had died in an accident.

Now I was not a fan of the late Princess, but it was of course sad that someone so young had died, I felt sympathy for her sons but I can't say I felt grief. It became apparent though that we were expected to grieve. Every radio program seemed to be a phone in with people in mourning. TV schedules were thrown out of the window.

Workers demanded that shops and factories be closed so they could watch the funeral. Footballers and others demanded that the games were postponed.

Of course being on holiday I was bereft of people to talk to. Its a bit much when Richard Littlejohn seems the voice of reason but he commented that when Churchill died everyone mourned and then got on with it.

I picked up Private Eye which was brilliant. It never once stepped out of line. It took merciless aim at the public and the media but never once at the Princess (who in the past was a prime target), it perfectly summed my feelings. The best bit was a piece with quotes about Diana in Sunday editions before and after she died. Brilliant.

I drove home on the day of the funeral (roads were empty), I avoided the funeral (cut my grass). The only piece of the day I remember clearly is this idiot saying "I never met her she had no impact on my life but I cried more than when my Father died". What a prize buffoon.

What got me in this topic was that the public were outraged the Queen didn't rush back from Balmoral to share there grief.

I was watching Richard & Judy (I was round Mum's at the time) this week and they were discussing a new film called The Queen. It stars Helen Mirren as the Queen and that chap who played Bair in The Deal.

I believe it deals with the week after Diana's death and I think the conversations of the Queen and Blair. The clip I saw went like this (paraphrased) (oh and I believe that it may have come from private conversation Blair had with people at the time that were leaked).

Blair - Ma'am the people expect you to come back and share their Grief!
Queen - Their Grief !! Mr Blair if you think I am going to desert my grandchildren at this moment... I think I know the British People better than that. They will mourn quitely and with dignity as they've always done.................
Blair - As you wish Ma'am

The thing was Blair was right, people did expect her to do just that. My own view was stuff Brenda from Milton Keynes worry about the children. The Queen may of misjudged the mood but she was still right.

To me Britain changed that day. It just happened to change for the worse.

4 comments:

Diddums said...

There does seem to be a wish to prove your heart is in the right place by grieving publicly about some things - perhaps people are afraid if they don't, they'll be accused of not caring... just as they did to the Queen. Why did that start? It can't just be because of TV, because that's been around for a while. Diana herself changed the way we look at the Royal Family - that might have been a factor, but I don't think it's the only thing that changed. I suppose she was a product of her time and we've all been changing - unfortunately our respect for others and their right to privacy has been one of the things to go.

Pete said...

i thought I might get more comments on this!!

I put it down to the break down of respect in society.

I was never in a believer in the cult of St Diana

Kate said...

No, I didn't join the cult of Diana either. I was sorry to hear she had died, because she was so young, and had a family, but really the national outpouring of grief seemed more like mass hysteria to me.

I was at uni at the time, and during a seminar about popular culture the lecturer brought up the subject of the reaction Diana's death. Most of the group agreed that it had been over the top, but one girl walked out because she felt that by saying that we were being disrectful. Not to the princess or the royal family, but the British people!

Diddums said...

I was watching something the other day that seemed to present another side of the same coin. Someone in the programme spoke of his/her impression that groups who make certain vociferous protests (eg against the infamous cartoons, or certain plays, books or films) are trying to prove how strongly they feel. It's more about that these days than about the actual issues they claim to be protesting about.